‘Sticks and stones may break my bones, but chains and whips excite me’. These are the lyrics to one of Rihanna’s more risqué songs, S&M, and yet I can’t help but agree with it. This is nothing new, and if you’ve been keeping up with the trends, you’ll know that BDSM is the in-thing. And let me tell you, it’s not just a fantasy that exists only in the world of Fifty Shades of Grey. Should you want it, you could get your own Christian Grey, albeit without all the unnecessary baggage.
Oftentimes, people believe that sex is something that is risqué and bordering disturbing when other elements are incorporated into it. I’m talking about sex toys, chains and whips that bring pain into the equation. They find it queer and odd that people may find pleasure in pain. However, there’s a whole new world to encounter in sex should you be curious and daring enough to find out. Here’s a little secret, it’s not just for baby-making.
However, before indulging in your sexual desires, there’s an important question you must be able to answer. How to choose the right toy for you? This is to avoid any unnecessary hurt and discomfort that you could experience should you use the wrong toy.
Length and Girth
The length of a sex toy is vital, not to mention the girth of it. To ensure you don’t hurt yourself, it is advisable to go with a smaller option first. I know people always say ‘bigger is better’, but let me tell you, it’s best to go with what you’re comfortable with. Listening to senseless gossip when you’re a virgin could cause major damage to your private area, not to mention internal bleeding. Unless you are experienced, you shouldn’t be too adventurous on your first go. Slow and steady wins the race and in this case, your safety should be your topmost priority.
For those fresh virgins out there, I gather that privacy would be your top priority. I get that many of us are not so open about our sexual desires. Neither are we comfortable with others listening to us pleasure ourselves. Most of us might even be living with our family members. And in your rush to reach ecstasy, and to stay quiet, you often tend to forget that you could hurt yourself if you’re not careful. Well, have no fear now, can modern technology has made it so that sex toys, vibrators in particular are quieter now. So the next time you’re looking to get off, you won’t have to fear being found out.
As weird as this sounds, the material of your sex toy is also something that needs close deliberation before purchasing. This is because not all materials used to make sex toys can be cleaned 100%. There are a number of materials where bacteria are more likely to stick to, hence it is advisable to do your research before purchasing your sex toy. Because the last thing you’d want is an infection when you’re just trying to get off.
So if you’re interested in spicing up your sex life, go here for the most popular vibrators for women in Secret Cherry, Malaysia. Because I can promise you this, Secret Cherry is sure to not disappoint you.